Steady & Strong: A Therapy Blog

for Women

Welcome to my therapy blog — a space for women and mothers healing from trauma, navigating transitions, and reclaiming their strength. Whether you’re exploring EMDR, recovering from postpartum struggles, or seeking a deeper sense of self, you’re not alone here.

Maternal Mental Health, Motherhood, Postpartum Support Victoria Rutsch, LMFT Maternal Mental Health, Motherhood, Postpartum Support Victoria Rutsch, LMFT

Mother’s Day Is Complicated: Holding Space for Grief, Joy, and Everything in Between

Mother’s Day isn’t easy for everyone. For some, it brings up grief, exhaustion, or the quiet ache of not feeling seen. In this post, I share gentle, therapist-informed ways to care for yourself if the day feels complicated—because your experience matters too.

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How Motherhood Anxiety Often Hides in Plain Sight (And Why You’re Not Overreacting)

Motherhood anxiety doesn’t always look like panic attacks or constant worry. Sometimes, it’s the silent mental load, the racing thoughts at bedtime, or the constant second-guessing of your every move. In this post, we’ll unpack how anxiety can show up in ways you might not expect—and why your feelings are valid, even if no one else seems to notice.

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Birth Trauma and EMDR: Healing After a Difficult Labor or Delivery

Birth trauma doesn’t always look how you expect. If your birth left you feeling shaken, overwhelmed, or disconnected, EMDR therapy can help you process what happened and begin to heal — on your own terms.

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The Financial Investment of EMDR Intensives: Why It’s Worth It

EMDR intensives aren’t cheap — but they are life-changing. This post breaks down the value, the structure, and the emotional weight behind investing in focused trauma healing.

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